So first things first, I've discovered a silver lining that I never knew existed which is always nice. When one is dealing with a conventional baby there is a genuinely mind blowing amount of advice, methods, routines, plans and books to follow. I remember being so envious of my friend who had a book called 'what to expect in the first year'. I felt hard done by that with Mojo nobody could tell me what to expect in the coming days, let alone the coming year. Imagine having a book which will tell you what to expect and what to do and how to get it right I thought. Lucky bloody 'normal' mums. Well, not so much it turns out. In fact it turns out that being able to disregard all baby advice and competitive parenting because your baby is not expected to behave conventionally is very liberating and in fact not having a book to beat myself up with first time around was a huge blessing in disguise. Admittedly it was a very convincing disguise but now with hindsight and a conventional baby on my knee I can see it clearly. So it is with huge self discipline that I am attempting to shelve the books and do exactly what we did the first time around and baby number two like a tiny unpredictable human without worrying too much about 'what to expect'. (I reserve the right to ignore this high horse approach when I'm googling 'baby cross eyed normal?' at 3am)
Adjusting to life with newborn aside we've had a month of anti-climactic stress and diary juggling caused primarily by Mojo not being well enough to have her scheduled surgery this month. We spent three hours waiting to 'check in' to hospital only to be told by the anaesthetist that Mojo's cold would mean that if he had to put her under he would 'almost certainly put her in intensive care'. Urmmm yeah, okay, lets not then!!! So after lots of preparing both her and I for it we now have to wait until days before her 3rd birthday for the rescheduled operation. In the meantime tomorrow brings her first Botox injection to try and help her hip movement. The side effects list includes a 'flu like' illness. Excuse me while I bang my head repeatedly against this wall. Can one buy shares in Calpol??
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There's a lot going on. my memory is shot and despite baby being an amazing sleeper the sleep deprivation of night feeding does take it's toll. As always at this time of year the weeks seem to be flying by and the to-do list of jobs that I usually enjoy such as Christmas shopping or birthday cake baking feel a bit heavy. That's the best word for it, heavy. Hopefully once the operations and procedures are completed and we can focus on the nice elements of December things will seem easier.
Have you ever read a more melodramatic excuse for not bothering with Christmas cards this year! Honestly, I don't know what I do with my time.